To avoid spreading the ash around when removing, first lightly spritz it with a bit of water. This will keep the ash from getting into the air and you can just scoop it out.
Woman" This is written in the Hebrew Talmud, the book where all of the sayings and preaching of Rabbis are conserved over time. It says: "Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal.